Friday, November 19, 2010

I No Longer Want To Kick Him In The Head, So Now What?

If I were reading someone else's blog that had posts like my recent posts, I'd finish the last one with one question: So what happens next?

I don't know. Easy still manages to piss me off each and every day because of something he doesn't think all the way through. That's just him and who he is, but it sure is taking some getting used to.

Easy is very emotional and wears his heart on his sleeve. When an impulse strikes him, especially when it comes to me and his emotions, he usually runs with it.

Then it becomes my job to sort out all the junk that came pouring out of his mouth.

Examples of impulsive things Easy has said to me:
-I should move to St. Louis and live with him.
-I should visit for a month straight.
-I should be responsible for teaching our kids how to be serious.
-We should go on a road trip during his Spring Break.
-We should go on a cruise with our friends whose wedding we met at this coming Valentine's Day.

He is lucky I'm not a crazy person with a baby/wedding/co-habitation itch. He would have lots of things to back track from.

But here's the reality. We are still getting to know each other. We are dating only each other, but we are not boyfriend and girlfriend. If things do not work out, we will move on.

He likes to talk about the future, and in a way I do too. Just not as much as him. Next week, I'm supposed to be having dinner with his family for Thanksgiving.

I've spent a considerable amount of time around them already, but it's different when it's a holiday. So I guess we'll see how that goes before we get to talking about anything else.

2 New Hypotheses:

The guy I'm currently "talking" to is kind of gung ho with getting me to move up to NY with him. Considering we're not girlfriend/boyfriend...or even technically "dating" anymore it just seems odd to me. I'm glad I'm not the only one in the same position though.


Oh wow. I wouldn't say Easy is gung ho, he's just mentioned it before really enthusiastically. I don't think I would like it very much at all if he brought it up all the time.

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